One of my favorite poets is Naomi Shihab Nye. There's something gentle and kind about her writing and it comes through in every word. When I read her poem, "Full Day," which you'll find below, I was reminded of my own small box of treasures filled with memories gathered many years ago. My mother bought it for me for my twelfth birthday.
We had been out shopping together, perhaps for my birthday present but I'm not certain, when we stopped in a store very near to where I am now living. While there, I spotted a beautiful, black lacquer music box with a Japanese design and doors inside to hold jewelry, should I ever have any. I stared at it, turned the mechanism underneath, opened it so I could listen to its tune, "Some Enchanted Evening," then glanced at my mother a time or two to let her quietly know I had found something absolutely perfect. Did I think she'd actually buy it? It seemed far-fetched from where I stood.
But, a few minutes later she did just that. I felt like the richest girl alive when we left that store. I can remember sitting in the car on the way home with the music box in my lap, unable to believe it was actually mine.
I was getting ready to move from Santa Fe back to Minnesota, carefully carrying it from the house out to the garage where I planned to pack it in a box filled with newspaper before its return home. I held it close in both hands, as you do when you're carrying a box of treasure. As I stepped through the door into the garage the music started playing. I stood in disbelief and quietly waited as it played, "Some Enchanted Evening," all the way through, with the lid closed. And then it ended. Though I tried several times it never played again. That is, until today. The deeply meaningful reason I received this message today shall remain my private understanding. But I'd like to share the poem with you that brought forth this memory.
"Full Day"
The pilot on the plane says:
In one minute and fifty seconds
we're going as far
as the covered wagon went
in a full day.
We look down
on clouds,
mountains of froth and foam.
We eat a neat
and subdivided lunch.
How was it for the people in
the covered wagon?
They bumped and jostled.
Their wheels broke.
Their biscuits were tough.
They got hot and cold and old.
Their shirts tore on the branches
they passed.
But they saw the pebbles
and the long grass
and the sweet shine of evening
settling on the fields.
They knew the ruts and the rocks.
They threw their furniture out
to make the wagons lighter.
They carried their treasures
in a crooked box.
~ Naomi Shihab Nye, from Come with Me
Among the treasures in my own "crooked box" is a small amber hair comb that belonged to my mother, long before she became my mother, as well as an amber beaded necklace from her youth.
Images:
The music box.
My mother, at the age of 16. She passed on in the year 2000.
What a wonderful story about how special a Mom can be Teresa! I wish I had those kind of memories and feelings about my Mom but it was even hard for me to pick out a card today. Most of them had words that I don't feel, words that I can't even imagine saying to my Mom. She feels like such a stranger to me. She is like a neighbor or something that you care for but you don't have that deep abiding love for. How lucky you were to have your Mom to bring up memories like this for you. I am envious, especially on this day that we celebrate mothers.
ReplyDeleteI had ups and downs with my own, but she was kind and she worked hard at making life good for her family. She and I had a lovely connection. Somehow, we understood each other. I hope you find a sense of peace today.
DeleteVery nice. I love inside memories.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Michael.
DeleteWonderful memories!
ReplyDeleteI'm fortunate to have them. Have a beauty of a day!
DeleteMaybe you can't know the evening is enchanted until the song plays. Or, maybe you sing the song yourself to remind you that it is.
ReplyDeleteI don't know, but spring around here is pretty enchanting.:)
DeleteWhat a wonderful story, Teresa. I cried when I saw you in my mind's eye holding that precious music box and listening to it play. So beautifully written and inspiring. Your mother will always be your mother, no matter where in the universe she resides. That's what I tell myself, too.
ReplyDeleteExactly, Jan. Thanks for your kind words. I hope you have a very peaceful day.
Delete"We eat a neat
ReplyDeleteand subdivided lunch."
I'm old enough to remember those good ol' airline days.
The poem was originally published in 2000. Those lines caught me, too. Now, you're lucky if you get a bag of peanuts.
DeleteSome very lovely thoughts. I had a box , it was fun to look what I had saved over the years.Your best treasure was getting this box and sharing your experience.
ReplyDeleteIt is fun to see what we've saved and the memories they bring up, but, yes, that box is the real treasure. Thanks, Steve.
DeleteWe hear the tune when we most need it..
ReplyDeleteWe have a Bingo! :)
DeleteThis is a beautiful post. At a conference session on creativity about 20 years ago, someone had us close our eyes, create a box, and place something precious inside it. He said we should bring it out for inspiration. Guess I didn't do that, because I now can't remember what it was. But I'm going to make a new one to remember this time in my life. Thanks for this post, which suggested that to me.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, Nancy. I'm happy that it brought the suggestion forward for you. I hope you've had a wonderful Mother's Day.
DeleteYour treasure box is beautiful. I remember the song, "Some Enchanted Evening" and it certainly lends itself to a sweet memory.
ReplyDeleteSome songs do that, don't they?
DeleteHappy Mother's Day, Janice!
What a beautiful memory, and you are doubly blessed to have such a wonderful song (now firmly lodged in the forefront of my mental radio, thank you very much) associated with it!
ReplyDeleteYou're very welcome, mr. t. :)
DeleteOh such a lovely poem Teresa, and such a lovely lovely post today!! How totally magical that your musical-box played even with the lid closed to bring back those gentle memories of your mother. She was so beautiful and left you with such 'enchanted memories'.
ReplyDeleteHugs dear Teresa,
x Jane x
She certainly did, Jane, and I'm so grateful and blessed for it. Thank you for your loving response.I trust all is well in your little corner of the world.
DeleteHugs to you,
Teresa
Quite a wonderful story. You had a terrific Mom; one who evidently loved you a lot. I like that the box played this song at an unexpected time. We had an old Dresden China clock that was my grandmothers. I sent it to my sister because I knew she would love to have it. The hour chime had not worked in decades. One night it rang twelve times. The very same night my grandmother died some 500 miles away!
ReplyDeleteI loved this poem, by the way!
I love how the universe works. Thank you so much for telling me the story associated with your family clock, and for the kind and supportive words. Always appreciated.
DeleteI have the feeling that the universe has never changed. We humans just need to understand that it holds love, promise, and a consistency that is foreign to our behaviors. Of course, that's just my funny way of looking at the big picture
DeleteBill, I agree with you completely, and when we align ourselves with it, our thoughts and actions, "our behaviors," we see and experience it more fully, and more consistently. And I always know when I have because there's instant feedback - this feeling in the center of my being, my inner compass tells me so. :)
DeleteA wonderful and heartwarming story, Teresa.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Sandy.
DeleteIsn't it remarkable how a gift can keep on giving, at different times and in different places of our lives, as this treasure box does for you?
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely photo of your mom, Teresa; with the dog at her lap, the trees behind her, her eyes looking forward, smiling. It is evocative of the picture of you and Buddy that you keep on your blog.
Now, off I go, humming . . . some enchanted evening.
That picture tells me a great deal about my mom in the life she led before marriage and children. I sometimes wish I could get to know Her better. Perhaps I should open my thought up more to that possibility and stop looking at the limited version of life. :)
DeleteThank you so much for reading and commenting. You always seem to arrive with fresh inspiration for me.
Treasure boxes are so special and yours is so lovely. As is the story of how you received it.
ReplyDeleteI always enjoy when my granddaughters put something I give them in their treasure boxes.
Your mom is very beautiful and I love that she appears to have had a beloved dog, as you do.
And the song 'Some enchanted evening' is one of my favorites. We had it played at our wedding.
Thank you so much, Cathy. I don't have grandchildren, but if I ever do, I will be certain they each have a treasure box.
DeleteDear Teresa, . . . this is a truly lovely Mother's day posting. I, too, have a box. It is cedar with a beautiful patina. Glued on its lid is a scene of a forested village. In it are treasures from many years. Small pieces of life that bring back memories. And one of the memories, held within the box itself, is of mother buying it for me at the annual social at Saint Mary's Parish when I was in the fifth grade. Thank you for reminding me. Peace.
ReplyDeleteI love that your mother also knew the value of a box that would hold your treasures and memories. Everyone should have one. Thank you, Dee.
DeleteTeresa this was such a nice post. I loved hearing about the box and how your mom just knew how important it would be to you. I will say, I got a little teary-eyed over your story and I can just imagine, how you felt carrying the box when it started playing on its own again. So many moments like that in life, that cannot be explained.
ReplyDeleteWhat a sweet and loving response. Thank you so much. These moments that cannot be explained provide endless fascination for me.
DeleteTeresa. That was a beautiful post. Lots of feelings and thoughts in that great poem too. Perfect. I have a copy of a handwritten journal that one of my relatives wrote and they traveled by covered wagon from Kentucky to the plains of Iowa in the 1800's. They were a hardy stock indeed.
ReplyDeleteYou entered my mind this morning, and here you are! :)
DeleteWhat a great thing to have. It must tell some interesting stories of what had to have been a challenging life at times. I have several handwritten diaries that belonged to my aunt, my mother's sister. I love the stories they tell that include my mother.
Thank you so much for your comments. It's always nice to hear from you.... I trust all is well with you.
Hmmmmmm. A small world indeed. Yours was the first web site I pulled up today. And I'm glad I did. I've been thinking about your post all day. My mind goes into "refresh" mode and a whole new thought appears. Of course lots of great memories of my mother too. You would have liked her. She would have liked you too. Thanks again Teresa.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Steven, very much for your kind thoughts. A really nice way to end the day.
DeleteYou might find the next comment with another poem by Ms. Nye interesting....
This poem is probably too long for a comment section, but I got excited to hear that Naomi is one of your favorite poets as she is mine so I want to share with you my favorite of hers (which I used often when teaching writing).
ReplyDeleteValentine for Ernest Mann
by Naomi Shihab Nye
You can't order a poem like you order a taco.
Walk up to the counter, say, "I'll take two"
and expect it to be handed back to you
on a shiny plate.
Still, I like your spirit.
Anyone who says, "Here's my address,
write me a poem," deserves something in reply.
So I'll tell you a secret instead:
poems hide. In the bottoms of our shoes,
they are sleeping. They are the shadows
drifting across our ceilings the moment
before we wake up. What we have to do
is live in a way that lets us find them.
Once I knew a man who gave his wife
two skunks for a valentine.
He couldn't understand why she was crying.
"I thought they had such beautiful eyes."
And he was serious. He was a serious man
who lived in a serious way. Nothing was ugly
just because the world said so. He really
liked those skunks. So, he re-invented them
as valentines and they became beautiful.
At least, to him. And the poems that had been hiding
in the eyes of skunks for centuries
crawled out and curled up at his feet.
Maybe if we re-invent whatever our lives give us
we find poems. Check your garage, the odd sock
in your drawer, the person you almost like, but not quite.
And let me know.
Kate, I cannot thank you adequately for this wonderful poem! A gift, really. Your comment, along with Steven's, is such a lovely way to close this day. Just perfect.
Delete"Maybe if we reinvent whatever our lives give us we find poems." I absolutely Love that line and the ending is sublime in its simplicity. Oh, to write like that.
Thank you, Kate.
What a beautiful picture of your mother, and that lovely pooch! Thanks for your kinds words back at my place. Ken
ReplyDeleteDear Teresa,
ReplyDeleteI found your blog this morning while reading a comment you made on Greenwich Village Daily Photo and I'm glad I did.
Your blog is full of meaning and beauty. I plan on reading all your posts.
John M
Hi Ken, You're most welcome. It was a great photo you shot. I always like seeing what's caught your eye.
ReplyDeleteJohn, I'm so glad you came over to visit. I appreciate your response and hope you find something in my previous posts that speaks to you.
ReplyDeleteI remember Perry Como, but for me the only version of "Some Enchanted Evening" is and always will be the one my mother and father had the original Broadway cast recording of, the one I grew up with, with Ezio Pinza doing the singing:
ReplyDeletehttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fkrt3NMvMHU
Opera singers sometimes overpower a popular song, but in this case I feel that the song needs a powerful voice to release its magic.
I came very close to posting that version and do agree with you. I decided on Perry though, as it most closely resembled the music box version - more lightly played.
DeleteThanks for reading.